Guess who was born 20 years ago? Me!!!. It’s my twentieth birthday today and am really thankful for 20 years worth of experience and 20 years of being alive. Finally leaving the so called teen years behind and am so happy about it. Today I will be sharing 20 lessons have learned in 20 years.
1. Surround yourself with good people.
Dont surround yourself with people that keeps bringing you down and also taking you back. Surround yourself with people that keeps encouraging you and bringing out the best in you.
2. There is nobody like your family, Love and cherish them.
Don’t put anything over your family because when those things leave you, family will still be there for you.
3. Be nice.
It takes zero naira to be nice. Just be nice. (the world is full of nice people if you can find one, be one).
4. Love your body.
If you don’t love your own body, nobody will and when people make little comment about your body it gets to you and you start different process of getting the ideal body, If it doesn’t work you get depressed. Just love your body girl!.
5. It’s okay to spoil yourself sometimes.
Once in a while, spoil yourself. Get yourself that your favourite icecream or chocolate you have been craving or that cloth or beauty product you have been eyeing and you won’t regret it.
6. You will experience pain sometimes.
Every doesn’t go well all the time, sometimes you will be sad or broken but don’t unpack there just continue your journey through life cause its part of living.
7. Appreciate little things.
Appreciate those little things like you finding that bag you have been looking for when you ain’t even looking, that ‘I love what you do comment people always give you’ and so on.
8. You’re not too young to start anything.
I hear a lot of people say “am still young” ,”she still young” so what?! is there any rule or book that says young people can’t be successful?. So if you’re part of the “am still young” statement crew, please stop wasting your time and start working hard now.
9. Sometimes try leaving your comfort zone.
Sometimes you just have to step out of your comfort zone and try new things.
10. Be happy.
Choose to be happy and don’t let anything dictate your happiness. Just be happy!.
11. Turn your back on negativity.
Turn your back on anything negative its toxic to you. “who negativity don help?”
12. Have fun once in a while.
once in a while try to have fun, it won’t kill you.
13. Laugh every chance you get to.
Sometimes you just have to laugh till you start crying and those are the best kinda laughs you can have. So stick to that friend that makes you laugh everytime or that your favorite comedy show that keeps you laughing and crying at the same time.
14. Be healthy.
Try to be healthy at all the time, exercise once in a while,drink a lot of water and detox yourself. Ditch the junk food and carbonated drink once in a while and eat something healthy.
15. Be your own kind of beautiful.
Just know you’re beautiful just the way you are. You don’t have to wear the same thing Kim k is wearing or look like Nicki minaj to feel beautiful. Love yourself.
16. Believe in yourself.
Believe in yourself and be confident that you can do anything and don’t ever bring yourself down.
17. Don’t be scared to express yourself.
Never be scared to express yourself. If you don’t like something or something is bothering you, express yourself and say how you really feel. Don’t bottle it all up.
18. Be thankful.
Be thankful for everything you have from the smallest one to be biggest and even the ones you don’t have yet but you know someday you will. (Right now am just thankful for life)
19. Love life.
Love life and enjoy every bit of it.
+1 . Put GOD first in your life.
Put God first in everything you do and see how things will go well.
Happy birthday to all may 31st babies out there..
its okay to send me gifts loves, don’t be shy..lol…
TILL NEXT TIME..XOXO..